Introduction
1 Timothy 5.3–16 has attracted considerable scholarly attention for its statements about women, and specifically χῆραι – a term normally translated ‘widows’ but which it is best to leave untranslated for now. The form-critical search for early Christian church-regulations and the rediscovery of early forms of women's ministry led many scholars to trace here evidence of an ‘order’ or even ‘office’ of widows, often with the conclusion that the author of our text was intent on limiting both the number and the power of these women.Footnote 1 As we shall see, there are reasons to doubt that the text provides evidence for anything more formal than a register of women eligible for material support, and our focus here will rest on its financial dimensions. 1 Tim 5.3–16 offers, in fact, a rare glimpse into early Christian economics in the selective allocation of resources. It draws our attention to the intersection of gender, household, and the material support offered by the church at the turn of the second century.Footnote 2
It is unusual in the Pastorals to find such a long treatment of a single theme. Despite the asyndeta at 5.9 and 5.16, and against the opinion that the ‘registration’ of χῆραι in 5.9–10 represents something different from the financial support envisaged in 5.3–8, there is strong literary and thematic evidence that 5.3–16 constitutes a unified treatment of a single topic. The passage begins and ends with instructions to support only ‘genuine χῆραι’ (5.3, 16: αἱ ὄντως χῆραι), and there is a persistent concern to define this category (5.5–6) and to exclude those who, on one ground or another, should not be supported by the church (5.4, 8, 11–15, 16).Footnote 3 Nonetheless, on an initial reading of this text, puzzles abound. Are the prayers of the χῆραι in 5.5 and the household acts of benefaction in 5.9–10 qualifications for financial support or outlines of the duties of women admitted to a form of ministry? Why does the Pastor set the age limit so high, at sixty (5.9)? Is it inconsistent to say that a χήρα can be registered only if she has brought up children (ἐτεκνοτρόφησεν, 5.10), but to deny her support in 5.4–8 if she has children to look after her? Who are the younger χῆραι that the Pastor is evidently so anxious about (5.11–15), and what is the πρώτη πίστις he associates with them (5.12)? In 5.11 he appears to criticise these women for wanting to get married, but then instructs that they do so (5.14): is he just inconsistent, or is there some logic we need to grasp? If these are young widows here instructed to remarry, and if they were later widowed again, would they be ineligible for registration by the rule of 5.9 that the χήρα to be registered should have been the wife of only one husband? Although we should not expect the tight logic of a well-formulated legal ruling, any reading of this text that can solve such puzzles and offer a generally coherent reading of the passage is to be preferred.
The social and financial support of χῆραι is treated here at such length not only because of the vulnerability of women who lack family networks of support, and not only because the church is challenged by requests beyond its financial abilities, but also, and more fundamentally, because it is paradigmatic of a critical question concerning the social constitution and future shape of the church. Here quite self-consciously, the church, collectively and as church (ἡ ἐκκλησία, 5.16), is required to make a decision about its financial obligations, and in deciding how to spend its money it both reveals and controversially determines its identity. A decision at this point will crystallise the social configuration of the church and how it relates to the most important social building block of the Roman world, the household. In that decision both the core activities of the church and its aims will be laid bare. As we shall see, the treatment of χῆραι will serve to determine not just their social and material future but also the future structure of the church as a whole. As I hope to show, at every point the Pastor ensures that the church neither supplants nor competes with the household, but is to be constituted as a network of households committed to mutual economic support. What threatens him most is not so much (or not only) the power of women, but the encouragement of an ideology of celibacy that bypasses or undermines the household and therefore, in his view, creates a church of an altogether different kind. We may best trace this logic by following, in sequence, the four ‘house rules’ expressed or presupposed in the text.Footnote 4
1. House Rule 1: Household Networks are the Primary System of Support (1 Tim 5.3–8)
Following the series of age-related directions in 5.1–2, the instruction regarding χῆραι in 5.3 uses the imperative of the verb τιμάω in a broad sense. ‘Honour’ is part of its meaning (cf. the noun, τιμή, in 6.1), but the verb also carries financial connotations, as is made clear by its association with other words in this context that indicate material support (προνοέω, 5.8; ἐπαρκέω, 5.16 (cf. 5.10); ἐπιβαρέω, 5.16; cf. the financial meaning of τιμή in 5.17). This does not indicate ‘payment’ for duties performed, where one would expect reference to the work for which they are to be paid (cf. 5.17–18). Rather, the ‘honour’ is to be displayed in practical, material ways, as is envisaged by the same imperative in the fifth commandment (τίμα τὸν πατέρα σου καὶ τὴν μήτερα, Exod 20.12); indeed, in view of the following instructions to children, that commandment may be echoed here (cf. Eph 6.2).Footnote 5
This honour-support, however, is immediately limited to τὰς ὄντως χήρας (5.3), a phrase that will reverberate through the passage (5.5, 16). As 5.5 indicates, the author's definition of a ‘real’ χήρα is one who is μεμονωμένη, that is, a χήρα who is isolated and has lost all network support.Footnote 6 As ancient usage and ancient lexicographers indicate, χήρα means a woman without a man.Footnote 7 In the majority of cases, this means a widow, someone who has lost her man through death, but the noun (or its cognate verb) could also be used for women who had been abandoned by men, or for any woman deprived of a man.Footnote 8 Where there is reference to children (as here in 5.4, 8, 10), we may assume we are talking about widows, but we should not forget this wider possible range of meaning since, as we shall see, early Christian practice could create another, irregular, category of ‘women without men’ who could be described by this term. Being without a man, the ancient χήρα is deprived of a key link into a network of support, but if she has living children or grandchildren, she has not lost her whole support system.
In 5.4 the Pastor is concerned to put the responsibility for support of a χήρα who has living descendants firmly onto their shoulders. In the shift from the singular (εἰ δέ τις χήρα) to the plural third-person imperative (μανθανέτωσαν), the people addressed in 5.4b are the children or grandchildren of the χήρα,Footnote 9 who are expected to show proper piety (εὐσεβεῖν) to their own household, and to return to their parents/grandparents (οἱ προγόνοι) the exchange benefits (ἀμοιβὰς ἀποδιδόναι) that are expected of children to their parents everywhere in the ancient world.Footnote 10 Since life itself, and the care and expense of upbringing, are benefits conveyed by parents on their children, it was considered one of the most shocking forms of impiety for children not to give return benefits to their parents when they were old or poor: Philo considers this law so basic to nature that it is found even among animals (Decal. 106–20).Footnote 11 A widowed mother or grandmother is an obvious case of need, and the Pastor is concerned that responsibilities within one's own household (ὁ ἴδιος οἶκος) should be upheld, not displaced, by the church.
Widows were, indeed, often reabsorbed into their family of origin, or supported as best as was possible by their offspring. Remarriage was another practical option, especially if there were limited resources at their disposal (in dowry, inheritance or family network), and if their children were young, sick or deceased.Footnote 12 Given the differences in age at marriage (in the early empire wives were commonly 7–12 years younger than their husbands), and given average life expectancy, very many women were widowed in their twenties and thirties, and the loss of their husband's social network and earning power left them vulnerable.Footnote 13 Except for the few who owned property, widows were socially, legally and economically insecure, and it was probably debt that caused poor widows to lose their homes (e.g. Mark 12.40) and to be taken to court by their creditors (e.g. Luke 18.1–5).Footnote 14 There is some realism in the note in Acts that widows were beneficiaries of a daily distribution of food: that was how close many lived to the edge of starvation (Acts 6.1).Footnote 15 In his massive study on widows in antiquity, Jens-Uwe Krause has argued that about 30 per cent of adult women were unmarried widows.Footnote 16 If we imagine a church community of thirty adults (fifteen men and fifteen women), one might thus find as many as five widows in a community of only thirty adults, not all of whom would have had earning potential. If such widows had dependent children (‘orphans’), the burden was increased. The Pastor, who is clearly concerned about such a burden (5.16), shifts its weight where possible on to the widows’ own household network.
The ‘real’, that is, the truly isolated, χήρα (μεμονωμένη, 5.5), has only God to turn to. The Pastor uses biblical language to describe her as having ‘set her hope on God’ (5.5), a phrase that expresses human hopelessness and absolute dependence on God.Footnote 17 In this context, we should probably take her prayers ‘night and day’ to express a piety born of desperation: she prays all the time, because she does not know where her next meal will come from. These prayers are not an indication of her ecclesial duties, nor of her charismatic endowment, except, perhaps, in the sense, indicated by the Shepherd of Hermas, that the prayers of the poor are especially powerful (as proven by the fact that they have survived, in answer to prayer).Footnote 18 It is this humanly helpless figure whom the church is to support, her plight illumined all the more vividly by the contrasting vignette of a wealthy, extravagant widow, satirised in 5.6 (ἡ δὲ σπαταλῶσα ζῶσα τέθνηκεν). The rare verb σπαταλάω is a derogatory term for those who live in luxury; it is found also in James (5.5), Barnabas (10.3) and Hermas (Sim. 6.1.6 (61.6); 6.2.6 (62.6)), and reflects the common Christian hostility to those who kept their wealth to themselves (cf. 1 Tim 6.9–10).Footnote 19 Not all widows were poor and vulnerable, and the Pastor hereby disqualifies another category of χήρα from church support.
In the chiastic structure of this first paragraph (5.3–8), 5.7–8 returns to the main subject of this opening section (5.3–4): the household network as the primary system of support.Footnote 20 The responsibility to look after one's own, and especially members of one's household (οἰκεῖοι are the innermost circle of ἴδιοι), is taken to be basic to human morality: to fail in this would be to behave worse than an unbeliever (5.8).Footnote 21 Such is, indeed, the assumption of a reciprocity-based social order: networks of friends, neighbours and associates are important sources of support for the poor, but the strongest obligations, buttressed by the greatest moral sanctions, rest on the family.Footnote 22 The fact that the Pastor has to emphasise this point, and to give it such strong Christian backing (to fail here is to ‘deny the faith’), suggests that an alternative ideology is possible – that the church, as the ‘household of God’ (1 Tim 3.15), takes the place of the natural household, and subsumes responsibility for Christian ‘brothers and sisters’.Footnote 23 That radical Christian alternative, envisaging the church as a substitute family, is indeed a live option in the Jesus tradition, where disciples abandon their families and receive in this life homes, brothers and sisters (Mark 10.28–30).Footnote 24 This was the experience of many whose conversion fractured their households and degraded or destroyed their network of family support, and it is exemplified in second-century apocryphal Acts where travelling preachers and ascetic women renounce family obligations, break family ties and depend on the support of the church.Footnote 25 For the Pastor, on the other hand, the natural family is the essential building block of the church: leaders are to be exemplary male householders, and women are to manage their households and raise children to be the next generation of believers (1 Tim 3.4–5, 12; 5.14; Titus 1.6–7; 2.3–5). The church is composed of a network of such households, but does not supplant them. Even if it is constituted as a macro-household (‘the household of God’, 1 Tim 3.15) and draws its structuring rules by analogy from the household, this is not to be interpreted, in the Pastor's view, as taking the place of individual households as the natural units of social and economic support.Footnote 26 It is only those χῆραι who have lost such household support altogether who are to be supported directly by the church qua church (cf. 5.16).
2. House Rule 2: Register Only Exemplary House-Managers (1 Tim 5.9–10)
In 5.9–10 the Pastor indicates the kind of χήρα he would like to see supported. The verb καταλέγω is rare in Christian discourse, but there is no reason to find here appointment to an office, or ‘ordination’ to a role.Footnote 27 καταλέγω means to register or to put someone's name on a list; only the context indicates the nature and purpose of that list. It is commonly used in antiquity for the enlistment of soldiers, but it does not itself imply enrolment for a task.Footnote 28 Josephus uses the verb for the making of a list of names (e.g. of descendants or kings), and Philo (in the middle voice) for all sorts of lists.Footnote 29 The Pastor here envisages a widow's name being placed on an official list of those to whom the church makes an open-ended commitment of regular support; the list creates a collective recognition of this unusual level of responsibility. There is no indication here that such χῆραι (aged sixty and over) are being appointed to undertake ecclesial duties, unless we read back into this text the much later instructions on widows to be found in the Apostolic Constitutions and the Didascalia Apostolorum.Footnote 30 One can understand how it came to be expected that those supported by the church would give some reciprocal benefit, in the form of official duties, but there is no indication here of an ‘order’ with ecclesial tasks.Footnote 31 The earliest we find reference to an ‘order’ (ordo) of widows is in Tertullian, several decades later and in a different location.Footnote 32
What we find in 5.9–10 are not duties, but qualifications arising from past, exemplary behaviour (note the past tenses of 5.10).Footnote 33 The woman to be registered fits the ideal of faithfulness to her husband (5.9).Footnote 34 More particularly, she has served in the Pastor's idealised household, which constitutes a hub in the Christian network of benefits. The list in 5.10 begins and ends with reference to ‘good works’ (ἐν ἔργοις καλοῖς μαρτυρουμένη … εἰ παντὶ ἔργῳ ἀγαθῷ ἐπηκολούθησεν), and we should not read the doing of ‘good works’, a prominent motif in the Pastorals, as meaning simply ‘being nice’.Footnote 35 It refers to the low-level, everyday benefactions which form the support system of the poor: a gift of food, care of children, nursing the sick, sharing household items, a small loan in a crisis, hospitality, and so on.Footnote 36 Three practical examples are given in 5.10: giving hospitality for the night (εἰ ἐξενοδόχησεν), caring for guests who come for meals or visits (εἰ ἁγίων πόδας ἔνιψεν) and helping those in hardship (εἰ θλιβομένοις ἐπήρκεσεν).Footnote 37 The reference to ‘the saints’ in relation to one of these items probably indicates that all of them concern the internal gift-reciprocity operative within the Christian community where, in fluctuating conditions, small surpluses are distributed around the community, as needs arise. No doubt those addressed as ‘the rich’ in 6.17–18 are expected to play a larger than average role in this support system: they are instructed in 6.18 in multiple, overlapping terms to be generous, pooling their wealth in the practice of ‘good works’ (ἀγαθοεργεῖν, πλουτεῖν ἐν ἔργοις καλοῖς, εὐμεταδότους εἶναι, κοινωνικούς). But the whole community is bound together in gift-exchange, in a network of households like that imagined in 5.9–10. Women are the linchpin of this system, since they manage the everyday practices of the household through which such ‘good works’ are resourced and exchanged.Footnote 38
The age limit of ‘no less than sixty’ is striking: on average life expectancy, not many women lived to that age, and of those who did, not many would live much longer.Footnote 39 The rule therefore severely limits those who could be supported, but it probably also represents something else. At sixty a woman was no longer regarded as marriageable, since she was no longer able to bear children (the main purpose of marriage in antiquity).Footnote 40 Augustan marriage laws pressured elite women to remarry up to the age of fifty,Footnote 41 and the Pastor seems to be pushing the age limit surprisingly high; but the logic is, as we shall see, that ‘younger χῆραι’ are to marry (5.14) and to gain the necessary support within a household context. It is only those for whom there is now no possibility of reintegration into a household, and who have thus no prospect of that network support, who are to be registered as beneficiaries of the church. But even in their case the Pastor's description of their past lives lifts up the model of a socially active household. As always, the distribution of gifts reflects the values of the giver: the Pastor is urging his churches to enforce, or reinforce, their commitment to a model of church as a network of households. Just as leaders are to be exemplary householders (1 Tim 3.1–13), and older women are to teach younger women how to be beneficent house-operatives (οἰκουργοὶ ἀγαθαί, Titus 2.5), so the widows to be supported by the church are expected to have showcased the virtues by which the household network is held together, providing children for its future continuance and serving as models of household ‘good works’ for others to emulate.Footnote 42
3. House Rule 3: Do Not Support Those Who Take a Non-Household Option (1 Tim 5.11–15)
The Pastor now discourages the support of younger χῆραι: ὅταν γὰρ καταστρηνιάσωσιν τοῦ Χριστοῦ, γαμεῖν θέλουσιν ἔχουσαι κρίμα ὅτι τὴν πρώτην πίστιν ἠθέτησαν (5.11–12). καταστρηνιάω is an extremely rare verb, although the simple verb στρηνιάω and the cognate noun στρῆνος are reasonably common.Footnote 43 Their semantic field includes luxury, indulgence and arrogance, with possible sexual connotations (promiscuity or infidelity). The κατά prefix may be merely intensive, or it may (with the following genitive) suggest infidelity or insubordination in relation to Christ.Footnote 44 It seems that the marriage of these younger χῆραι would entail some sort of disloyalty to Christ and to their first πίστις.
The usual interpretation of this passage is that the χῆραι here in view are widows who, after becoming widows, have taken some oath or pledge (a possible translation of πίστις) regarding celibacy, out of commitment to Christ.Footnote 45 The Pastor holds it against them that they want to marry (5.11), but in 5.14 issues an instruction that they should do so. Unless he is utterly inconsistent, what he disapproves of must be not their marriage, but their reneging on their oath. And since he does, in effect, wish them to renege on that oath, it must be the oath itself that he considers unwise, unnecessary or dangerous. But this whole scenario is odd: we have no evidence anywhere else that widows might take a vow of subsequent celibacy called a πίστις, and it is very hard to understand why the Pastor would call this their first πίστις, since it does not appear to be ‘first’ in any respect.
However, another interpretation is possible and, in my view, infinitely preferable. As a number of scholars have noted, χῆραι here could refer not to ‘widows’ but to young Christian women who had made a commitment never to get married; they qualify as χῆραι in the sense of ‘women without a man’, but they might otherwise be called παρθένοι.Footnote 46 The best evidence for this phenomenon is in the near-contemporary letter by Ignatius to the Smyrnaeans, when he greets two kinds of people: first, the households (‘of brothers with their wives and children’ – that is, those operating the household network of the church), and secondly, τὰς παρθένους τὰς λεγομένας χήρας (Ignatius, Smyrn. 13.1). This gives us the evidence we need that in Christian discourse of this period χῆραι can refer to celibate women who have never been married.Footnote 47 All we need to imagine here is that young women, following Paul's advice, devoted themselves entirely ‘to the Lord’, not wishing to be divided in their commitments (1 Cor 7.32–5). They may have interpreted their commitment to Christ as a kind of ‘marriage’ (cf. 2 Cor 11.2–3; Eph 5.32), but in any case, their lifelong celibacy is bound up with their faith in Christ.Footnote 48 In this case, their πρώτη πίστις is (like the πρώτη ἀγάπη in Rev 2.4) a straightforward reference to their initial faith, not an obscure reference to an oath following widowhood.Footnote 49 Renouncing marriage and the normal roles of wife and mother, they represented another (and arguably superior) form of Christian devotion.Footnote 50
We can now understand why the Pastor is worried about these women, since we know from 1 Tim 4.3 that he is opposed to those who forbid marriage. Not only the story of Thecla, but also multiple other sources from the second century attest to the attraction for young Christian women in refusing marriage out of allegiance to Christ.Footnote 51 Whether one should describe this as a bid for autonomy is a moot point: unless they were self-sufficient in resources, such women would be dependent on other believers for their material support throughout their lives.Footnote 52 But one can well understand this option as a symptom of the radical rejection of ‘the world’ to which the Christian message drew so many in the early centuries, with the added benefit for women of avoiding the life-threatening perils of childbirth.Footnote 53 The Pastor knows about this phenomenon, but considers that these women may not be able to sustain their ascetic commitment, and will thus, in effect, renounce their Christian faith, to which their celibacy was tied.Footnote 54
The criticism of these younger women goes further in 5.13 and reveals more of the Pastor's socio-economic vision of the church. They are twice described as ἀργαί, and we should take this word in its etymological sense as ἀ-εργαί (cf. Matt 20.3, 6; Jas 2.20), that is, women who do not perform the everyday good works such as those described in 5.10.Footnote 55 Since they are not installed with responsibility in one of the household hubs of the Christian network, they do not have the opportunity to practise the routine benefactions that tie the community together. In the Pastor's perspective, they are mobile, peripatetic, περιερχόμεναι τὰς οἰκίας (5.13): that could mean making calls from house to house, but more likely indicates that they move from household to household for periods in residence, since (at least after the death of their parents) they have no house of their own.Footnote 56 They are unproductive because they are mobile: they do not have the stable base from which to contribute to the Christian system of benefaction-exchange.
There are, from the Pastor's perspective, additional faults: οὐ μόνον δὲ ἀργαὶ ἀλλὰ καὶ φλύαροι καὶ περίεργοι, λαλοῦσαι τὰ μὴ δέοντα (5.13). This language deploys stereotypes concerning women's ‘gossip’Footnote 57 and the fear of outsiders’ ‘interference’ in the business of the household (cf. 2 Thess 3.11), but the negative judgement of their speech also concerns its content. These women exemplify and perhaps promote an alternative model of Christianity, committed not to marriage, child-rearing and household management, but to the single, celibate life that undercuts the household model. If many women take this option, there will be too few Christian young women for Christian men to marry. Βut, more generally, this alternative, non-household, model threatens the household-network system which is essential to the Pastor's vision. There is reason to think that the Pastorals polemicise throughout against this alternative, non-household, option, even though it could claim inspiration from Paul. In a close parallel to our text, the letter to Titus inveighs against those who ‘overturn whole households, teaching what they should not (ἃ μὴ δεῖ) for the sake of gain’ (Titus 1.11), while 2 Timothy warns against those who ‘enter households and capture young (or weak) women (γυναικάρια)’ who are subject to sinful desires and are ‘always learning and never coming to a knowledge of the truth’ (2 Tim 3.6–7). The references here to teaching and learning (as in 1 Tim 5.13: μανθάνουσιν) suggest that the threat comes from teachers who are not themselves embedded in households, and who travel from church to church embodying a message of radical renunciation of home, marriage and wealth – precisely the kind of itinerant ‘apostles’ we see mirrored in the apocryphal Acts as successors to the ‘wandering charismatics’ in the early Jesus movement.Footnote 58
The Pastor is vigorously opposed to such ‘false teaching’. He knows that this celibacy option is heavily criticised in pagan society (5.14), and he is concerned that some young women have adopted it and ‘turned away to Satan’ (5.15).Footnote 59 His alternative is clear: these young women should marry, get embedded in a household, bear children (for future Christian households) and manage a household hub in the Christian network (5.14).Footnote 60 Once again, he reverts to the household model as the essence of the Christian economy. To give financial support to women who flout this model by remaining celibate for their whole lives would be to validate an option that does not complement but undermines the household ideal. Where Ignatius allowed both options to co-exist (Smyrn. 13.1), the Pastor sees danger, and wants the financial decisions of the church to reflect very clearly which model it supports, and which it does not.Footnote 61
4. House Rule 4: Women Believers Should Take χῆραι into their Support Networks (1 Tim 5.16)
This last verse (1 Tim 5.16) returns to the theme of the ‘real’ χῆραι and clarifies what has been implicit throughout, that the church, qua church, should not be responsible for the support of χῆραι unless they cannot be placed within some other network of support. According to the best texts (εἴ τις πιστὴ ἔχει χήρας), the primary responsibility rests on a female believer, and the echo of 5.4a might suggest that this ‘having’ represents a familial role, to be performed by a female relative.Footnote 62 But the wording is vague, allowing that χῆραι be supported by any female supporter or patron.Footnote 63 Whether this entails accommodation or regular material support, being taken into the care of a believer would provide the link to a wider network that was otherwise lacking. In any case, the concern is not to burden the ἐκκλησία financially, so that it supports only those who are truly χῆραι (5.16). It is presumed that the church has a common pot of money (perhaps administered by an ἐπίσκοπος), but it is limited.Footnote 64 Once again, the preference is for a household to take primary responsibility; only those who fall outside the household network are to be supported. Where possible, χῆραι are to be reinserted into such a network. But as a last resort the church is willing to register those who are not, and can no longer be placed, in a household system of support.
5. Conclusions
On the reading of 1 Tim 5.3–16 offered above, the whole text is unified and well integrated in content. Despite persistent claims that the passage is disjointed and concerns two different kinds of ‘widow’ (those in financial need in 5.3–8 and 5.16, and those to be registered for a church order in 5.9–15),Footnote 65 we have found the text to be fully consistent both in subject matter and in ideology. Its four main sections each encapsulate a ‘house rule’ that promotes the household as the building block of the Christian church. The church is not the substitute for households, nor should it undermine them: rather, it is made up of a network of household hubs, joined by mutual support in ‘good works’. The ‘genuine χήρα’ is consistently defined as one who is isolated and bereft of all network support: she is a widow who has no surviving offspring and is of an age (sixty and over) when she is no longer marriageable and thus has no prospect of being reintegrated into a household network. Ruled out from this category are those with independent means (5.6), those whose offspring could and should care for them (5.4–8), those whom women believers could take into their care (5.16), and those who are young enough to be (re)married (5.11–15). If, as seems likely, female Christian virgins were being labelled χῆραι, the Pastor in effect disqualifies them from the acquisition of this title. Where possible, the Pastor rules, women and widows should be (re)integrated into a household network, the primary system of support for the poor. Only those who cannot be embedded in such networks are to be registered and thus formally recognised as the communal responsibility of the church.
We do not have evidence here for an ‘order’ of widows, a group set apart for special roles in the church, either one already existing or one here established. χήρα is not a role description and there is nothing here to indicate what χῆραι are intended to do. Praying and hoping in the Lord (5.5) are indicators of the desperation of the isolated widow, not church duties, and the activities of the χήρα in 5.9–10 are described in the past tense; they are not an outline of duties that a sixty-year-old widow is expected to perform. One of the chief reasons for finding here an ‘order’ of widows – the ‘pledge’ of 5.12 – is, as we have seen, a mirage: this refers not to a pledge on entry into an office, but to the initial faith of young girls who promised to remain celibate their whole life long. All that this text evidences, though this is highly significant in itself, is the decision to support destitute and otherwise unsupported widows as a collective entity, in the name of the church and from some common church fund. Even sixty-year-old widows might require food and housing for some years, and this is a weighty financial commitment for those who had no kinship relations with such women.Footnote 66
The Pastor treats this matter at such length because it brings to the surface an ambiguity about the identity of the church. The problem he faces is not that a widows’ ‘order’ is becoming too large or too powerful, but that the treatment of widows, and other women called χῆραι, poses a challenge to his theological and socio-economic vision of the church. He refuses to allow the church to take the place of the family, or to allow non-household models of the church to become normative. His model of church is a network of solidly Christian households, mutually supportive financially, but not expected to draw from central church resources. As an appendage to this network, but as an echo of its ideals, women who have been house-managers but who have for whatever reason lost their own family network are to be supported by the church house-network out of collective funds.
This model has implications for all believers, but in differing ways. Men are expected to be faithful to their wives and to lead Christian households, with obedient (i.e. believing) children; and some of them who are exemplary house-leaders can also lead the church house-network as a whole (1 Tim 3.1–7; Titus 2.3–9; cf. Onesiphorus’ οἶκος in 2 Tim 1.16–18). The church is expected to continue through procreation within Christian households, with young people duly marrying and raising the next Christian generation. In contrast to some other early Christian texts, no mention is made of households divided by conversion (Mark 13.12–13; 1 Cor 7.12–16; 1 Pet 3.1–6). Within and between the Christian households there operates a web of καλὰ ἔργα – the small-scale but vital support system of reciprocated aid that keeps the poor from destitution and knits together households in fluctuating economic conditions. Women, in managing the household, are the motor that keeps this household structure active and effective. As mothers and child-rearers, they raise the next generation, and ensure the formation and moral ethos of the church into the future. If young girls opt not to take on this role, there will be fewer solidly Christian households; and if such celibate women are promoted as exemplars by being given financial support, the household network will be in danger of collapse.
Because he is conducting an ideological battle on this topic, the Pastor uses rhetorical antithesis and polemical exaggeration to reinforce his message. Contrasting images of the widow are juxtaposed in exaggerated terms (5.5–6); alternatives constitute apostasy (5.8, 15); the image of the household wife is idealised (5.9–10); and ‘virgin-χῆραι’ are portrayed in derogatory terms (5.11–15).Footnote 67 The text does place limitations on the financial liabilities of the church, but more is at stake than that. It limits the options available to young Christian women, but it is not primarily driven by a fear of female power. Here, as elsewhere in the Pastorals, women are discussed principally in their relation to the household (1 Tim 2.10–15; 2 Tim 3.6–7; Titus 2.3–5), because what matters to the Pastor is the establishment of stable and active Christian households, as the essential building blocks of the church. It was not at all natural or necessary that the early Christian movement should adopt this structure as its primary model, especially in the Pauline tradition. The energy with which the Pastor promotes it is, perhaps, a sign of how fragile and contested it was.
Alternative models of the church, with an ascetic preference and a school ethos, were available and attractive. The Pastor's opponents appear to have been travelling Christian teachers with some such alternative vision. Believers, he complains, have ‘itchy ears’ for instruction from figures who are paid for teaching (Titus 1.10–11; cf. 1 Tim 6.5), and who move from house to house (2 Tim 3.6). In a school model, Christian pupils may come from Christian or non-Christian households, or may live outside the traditional household structure; they attend, learn and mature qua individual believers without an expectation that they will share their knowledge with their households. Celibate women could become not only exemplars but also teachers (1 Tim 5.13), especially if they have the wealth to afford an education (cf. 1 Tim 2.9–12). The names Paul, Timothy and Titus are residues of the early tradition of church-sponsored teachers, apostles and prophets who travelled from city to city to spread the good news, and it is ironic that they should be the named figureheads in this household-oriented text.
Of course, the Pastor, too, wants teaching, so long as it is ‘healthy’ and household-related. What concerns him is a teaching content that promotes a quite different vision of the nature and future of the church, and he is determined to stop this in its tracks. One respect in which the matter comes to a head is the question of eligibility for financial support from the collective but limited resources of the church. If the church commits this resource to the support of young χῆραι – young women who opt not to enter marriage or to raise Christian families – it is, in the Pastor's view, shooting itself in the foot. Money declares identity and purpose, and how the church decides whom to support is diagnostic of its view of itself and its goals. The issue for the Pastor is not just what the church can afford, but what lifestyle it wants to promote. From the Pastor's perspective, the women who choose not to engage in household management when it is possible for them to do so are not only a drain on the church's resources, and not only unable to contribute to its internal system of reciprocal welfare: they are inculcating a mode of Christian life which destabilises the church and threatens its future. No doubt the women concerned saw things differently, but if this reading is right, 1 Tim 5.3–16 reflects a fundamental debate about the character of the church that was to continue through the second century and beyond.Footnote 68